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sensualpassion72 59H/51F
3559 messages
2/6/2018 7h31

personal experiences influence behavior...... one common trait...... is that someone doesn't want to get caught rather than not acting in a manner to worry about who sees or who knows

The Hubby


Eviloutlaw1 62H
5180 messages
2/6/2018 7h31

I run into that a bit myself. Sometimes the unavailable profile is just that, turned off, and they are ghosting the site. On but not wishing to be seen for what ever reason, like keeping on the DL from a spouse or lover. Or could be the case of the unavailable profile just using the IM system alone. Not fully on line but using their phone to access it and the ability to talk to others via IM.
To each their own, but to get my attention I have to be able to see and possibly converse with them, if I can't I just ignore them.


Ienjoythetaste 75H
2560 messages
2/6/2018 7h36

I always think that "Profile Unavailable" is the site sending things out.

I just move on.

“For a moment, nothing happened. Then, after a second or so, nothing continued to happen.”
― Douglas Adams, The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy
Much like this site

Visit my Blog for my adventures.


RavenGB 63H
1430 messages
2/6/2018 7h45

Some people simply aren't very nice.


SingleStr8NYCGuy 54H
59 messages
2/6/2018 7h47

Joy is always worth aiming for.


hardanddeep0 57H

2/6/2018 7h48

are they bots created by the site, someone that is putting on a false front? Who knows. Move on, always another fish in the pond.


SingleStr8NYCGuy 54H
59 messages
2/6/2018 8h12

joy, astroglide, and a nice kinky playmate... mmmmm


SingleStr8NYCGuy 54H
59 messages
2/6/2018 8h19

Sounds like my kind of kinky gal!


SingleStr8NYCGuy 54H
59 messages
2/6/2018 8h26

BTW, I'm a standard member, so I can't respond to messages. If you're on IM, I can give you my email address.


notsure1949 74H
10657 messages
2/6/2018 8h32

agree with you, do hate profile unavailable after someone sends a message or looks at you, most of the time, think it is just the powers that be on this site playing games


Leegs2012 51H
96137 messages
2/6/2018 8h33

Yea, I see that on IM. You ask for a real picture and they're gone. You can't except a 100% in the online dating world.


SingleStr8NYCGuy 54H
59 messages
2/6/2018 8h56

I must be looking in the wrong place (that's what she said). Can't seem to find that on your blog, sexy


XHamburgDave 80H
10466 messages
2/6/2018 9h41

Hello JOY,

It annoys the hell out of me when I receive an IM, check the Profile and find it switched off!! It Screams Fake to me
I just Delete and move on!!


Please visit my Blog "Older but no Wiser"


redrockrascal 65H
23580 messages
2/6/2018 9h43

What are your thoughts on those who hide and why do they do it?
Really don't care much. If they leave a relevant comment I'll respond if something like xxxxxx I delete. I only check out other blogger once I get into further interaction with them usually on both our blogs. By then I'm fairly safe in figuring they are genuine.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


Apollorising2057 63H

2/6/2018 11h04

Honesty is in the long run rewarded!

Become a Apollorising2057 blog watcher!


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 messages
2/6/2018 11h50

Unfortunately this has been going on since I have been a member, and it will never end its sad that members feel the need to turn off their profiles..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


Story435 76H
3791 messages
2/6/2018 12h05

Hello beautiful!!!
Yes I have come across a lot of lately and it sucks. Click on their profile and it say profile unavailable ! I get this from young and older ladies. Why do you put me on your hotlist or wink at me if you don't want me to know who you are! And people with no pics or any information what WTF people!
Not sure why they do this or what they are trying to do either!
Butch


citizen4722 66H  
74582 messages
2/6/2018 12h38

Like yourself J, my curiosity often gets the better of me on here. I have been here long enough to usually spot the fakes but occasionally I have let my guard down.


GreenEyedLady_60 63F
1925 messages
2/6/2018 15h32

I tend to think this site is a crap shoot so to speak. Half or less of what you read on profiles is real for some.

I don't get why one would want to lie on their profile....seems to me that something started with lies is going to be doomed from the start. You tend to not trust people that lie to you....so simple a concept.

I speak from my heart on my profile and tell it like it is - how else will someone know if they would care to meet me, or have anything in common? I'm a take me or leave me kinda woman.....lol

There are too many fakes on here.

One guy in my area has 40+ profiles on here....ridiculous!!

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


SingleStr8NYCGuy 54H
59 messages
2/6/2018 16h06

I don't like surfing on my phone, and if things get steamy, then I have to balance the phone, the sheep, the - shit. Forget I mentioned the sheep.

I'll try using a different browser, but it wouldn't surprise me if the website is coded for an older browser standard.


scott6250 61H

2/6/2018 18h37

Good points my friend. Great pics too.

"Sweet, steamy, sensuous kisses light the bright fires of passionate lust within us." scott6250


sweet_VM 65F
81699 messages
2/6/2018 20h31

Agree soon as the profile is unavailable a big red flag is raised on my end as well. Lots of people don’t have a pic and that is ok. Great post Joy hugs V

Become a blog watcher sweet_vm


wd40w 71H
6966 messages
2/6/2018 22h29

Some folks...Have so many "Sock Puppets"...They lose track...It's pathetic...Borders on psychotic...It's been a problem since...Well...This joint started...Some will tell you..."Oh that's a Profile I test stuff with..."Riiiiiiiiiiiight...Pull my other finger...Just because you can...Doesn't mean you should...I'll be in the Garage...

"Illigitimi Non Carborundum Est" W.F. "Bull" Halsey wd40w


proteus_2a 58H
7979 messages
2/6/2018 23h03

The woman/man ratio on these sites is such, that fake profiles always appear
and notifications abound, that a man has been "Checked out"

I don't pay any attention to it actually
- and as a Standard member, profiles are unavailable

For me, in order for a woman to spike my attention, I have to see her
interact in the blogs and comments , and check out her blog

Otherwise, it's a fumbling search in the dark, and I don't feel too inclined into playing

Cheers my lady - P


Spoon1975Man 48H
165 messages
3/6/2018 4h37

Admittedly, it's rather frustrating to get a like or flirt, only to then have zero information on the member. Are they hot? Are they local? What are their interests? Could we click?

Rather than lose myself in, "What if?" I quickly move on to those I can see, those that are nearby, those with similar interests, and those I do click with. Not an egoist, "Their loss!" but a passing, "Huh...Wonder who they are? Oh well. Hey look! BOOBS!"


FMAOPLS 70F
27112 messages
3/6/2018 13h34

Membership on this site is pretty slim in my neck of the woods, so the chances of ever meeting anyone who messages me are so slim they are almost negative. I only check out those who live within a reasonable driving distance.

I don't spend any time wondering if the details of someone are real, or fictional. It's a waste of my time.

Check out my profile or and become a "watcher" of my blog FMAOPLS,to learn more about me, and for intelligent, lively, smartassy and fun discussion, with a little irreverence thrown in. "Like" or comment on my photos, and I promise I'll add more. Thanks.


easy_going2014 57H
14366 messages
3/6/2018 22h12

Hi Joy...

thanks for posting this one...

I've discussed this topic with a number of women from this site... well, they said they were women... and, I have no way to tell... without going crazy to research it all the way thru... and, I give them latitude... because I believe in "live and let live"... some say that, but don't know the meaning...

the way women have explained it to me... they have had stalkers... or bad experiences and the site is not 100% fool proof for guaranteeing people's privacy... and... of course... the site is setup for people to meet... it is not a religious experience... although... I guess it could be if you met your spouse here... before they were your spouse... just sayin'...

others... are... of course scammers of some sort... I've had three in the past three years... and, now I recognize the behavior pattern, so I can limit my time investment...

some are pros looking to increase their profitability numbers... luring people to other sites... yes... they are out there...

then... you have the 1000% men to women ratio that might make people try setting up multiple accounts to see what works kind of like the Bill Murray movie where he tries to get the day right... and, you have to experiment with all kinds of options, until you get it right... seems crazy... but, there it is...

and.... then... maybe... the site thru ambassadors or bots... sends bogus messages to members to elicit more participation on the site... this allows them to market their products to other online businesses based on volume traffic and customer behavior analysis...

well... that's all I've got to say about that...

hmm...

"love don't live here anymore"... maybe, it never did...

Madonna - "Love Don’t Live Here Anymore"

You abandoned me
Love don't live here anymore
Just a vacancy
Love don't live here anymore
When you lived inside of me
There was nothing I could conceive
That you wouldn't do for me
Trouble seemed so far away
You changed that right away, baby
You abandoned me
Love don't live here anymore
Just a vacancy
Love don't live here anymore
Love don't live here anymore
Just emptiness and memories
Of what we had before
You went away
Found another place to stay, another home
You abandoned me
Love don't live here anymore
Just a vacancy
Love don't live here anymore
You're the windmills of my eyes
Everyone can see the loneliness inside me
Why'd ya have to go away (away)
Don't you know I miss you so and need your love
You abandoned me
Love don't live here anymore
(Love don't…

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lok4fun500 H
51906 messages
4/6/2018 7h51

I seldom check on folks who view my blog...the numbers are high compared to the comments but I cherish the comments left...a few have me scratching various parts of my anatomy (from head to crotch)
I only have one profile and rarely change any part of it but "what you see is what you get"...I do "impersonate" one other person here but I do impersonate him in my real world also!


SeaGirlFL 60F
9220 messages
5/6/2018 18h17

I simply do not understand the need to have more than one profile. Even though I'm cautious with the photos I post and some of the details I share, the rest is all me. I don't know any other way to be. If it's not information I'm comfortable with sharing, I just don't share it...I won't lie about it.

Today, when I logged in, I saw two of the exact same profile pics with two different user names in the "who's online now" part of my "home" page. Guessing that one is fake and they snagged his photo...

(Funny...I have a post about the facts people post in their profiles...it's not quite ready yet... )

"Sometimes the most productive thing you can do is relax." – Mark Black


astute2r3 68H

7/6/2018 4h44

your deduction seems pretty accurate, by my account. Would it not be great if there was a site where one would have to get qualified to enter? Where the system, some higher quality system, would essentially sift though all the BS and the Not So Desired, thus providing a quality over quantity aspect, for those desiring the same? ENJOY


Yours_4A_knight 59H

10/6/2018 21h03

I get so little attention that I hardly notice (well except for profile views, flirts and hotlisting which are all totally false or so many are that they are all suspect.

But my read is that you are thinking two different things:

Unavailable Profiles, which are profiles that have been shut off for some reason (might be just too new to have been looked over) or shutdown at either there own request or because of some misdeed.

And the thin profile, no or few pictures, and basically no effort, and just a vehicle for someone to access the site for reason unknown. Which you are starting to read as a bad actor who is looking to cause you problems in someway. I do see, how having the experiences that you have had with people who think that it s fine for them to behave badly when the chances of negative repercussion are minimal (e.i. from the safety of mother's basement). I have a tendency to think that when I encounter it that the user had violated the rules in some manner, like alternate form of contact in the profile.

Maybe I pass unnoticed by the stalkers because I am no fun for them, as I have never had that experience of having someone do that to me, though I think that it has more to do with me simply being forgettable.

Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.


SolarPowered0 117H
8346 messages
12/6/2018 23h11


So... my dear Author--

What you're trying to tell us is... you actually believe any of this crap?

The peeps hated my profile so much that I had to actually put my info in my BLOG. Every word is the truth, too.

Ya know, my ex-wife accused me of spousal abuse. Seems that "brutal honesty" is considered abuse these days. That's probably why ya can't find any truthful buzzards hangin' out in these parts. Of course--that don't apply to me...

BTW: did I mention my 12" cock? Why, no; no--I don't believe I did.

Solar...


_IKanCu2_ 105H

23/6/2018 12h23

unavailable ?

Well ya,,, ]['m with You for 3 day*z and were hurting ourselve*z till we can barely walk straight.


_IKanCu2_ 105H

23/6/2018 7h40

aaawwwww... Yer just sssssoooooo busy with all those other /-/0T fella*z.
][''ll jus stay in Yur recovery room till you try and ravage Me again.


Yoursideguy76 47H

25/6/2018 21h54

I wouldn’t know if females get this but as a male, I get cam girls, hookers, and web trolls cat fishing for other sites
I get a couple bogus messages and views each time I come online
Its fairly obvious which are bs
Upon checking the profile it’s unavailable or by that time already dead
It’s running rampant all over. Not just an dmec.com problem


Amoculi 67H
19 messages
25/6/2018 23h13

Well I think two things. One, you point out, as you say, that there are a lot of phonies on this and every similar site. Two, you have a fine ass. Just that little peek I get in your photos tells me that. Do I have to be a Canadian to lick it? Your ass, not the photos.


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