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A Stroke of Genius
 
Real Men/Women of Genius is meant to poke a bit of harmless fun at the not-so bright members of this site. Disguised as playful rants, the nobler side of these posts holds the hope that some light will be shed on the sometimes irreparable mistakes that men(and women) make. What makes me the expert? I'm not, but there are two ways to learn from mistakes. By making your own, or by watching others. I've made plenty of mistakes, and seen plenty of them, and I have learned a great deal, and I wish to share my knowledge. I usually post once a week, on what I affectionately call Bloody Sunday. Check back for new posts!
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GLC Presents: Real Men of
Publié :14/2/2010 20h28
Dernière mise à jour :20/3/2013 14h07
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GLC Presents: Real Men of "Genius" #58

Today, I salute you, Mr. I Wasn't Interested Anyway

This week's "genius" actually didn't surprise me very much.

Why? Because too often men take rejection far too personally, and they react pretty much like a child who has had his favorite toy taken away.

The story goes something like this: A man reads the profile of a woman he finds interesting, and subsequently sends her an email. She politely declines.

Enter Mr. Give Me My Favorite Toy Back.

Instead of moving on to the next person that might share his interest, he takes time out of his obviously perpetual single existence to write her a response entitled "Wasn't interested anyway!"

See anything wrong with this picture? Do you see the contradiction that I do?

Of course you do. If he wasn't interested anyway, then why, oh why did he send the FIRST email? If he WAS, then why did he send the second? Either he's a game-player, or he sucks at accepting rejection. My money's on the latter.

Hmmm...if you ask me, this gives her TWO (count them) chances to call him on his bullshit.

One...he was bullshitting in the first email.

Two...he was bullshitting in the second.

It doesn't require a rocket scientist to figure out the one simple truth.

This guy's full of shit.

GLC
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GLC Presents: Real Men of "Genius" #57
Publié :7/2/2010 20h22
Dernière mise à jour :23/1/2013 7h59
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GLC Presents: Real Men of "Genius" #57

Today, I salute you, Mr. Are You Shaved?

This week's "genius" really needs to develop a "what's good for the goose is good for the gander" mentality.

He asks, without any inhibitions at all, the question of whether or not a woman shaves her private area.

So, I thought, let's see if this guy is being a hypocrite. I dared venture into the unknown...meaning, I looked at his profile. Of course, this is the time when I believe my Gold Member privileges of being able to view profiles should be temporarily revoked. My eyes are still burning from what I saw.

Picture, if you will, a bad hair day. Now, picture a very humid bad hair day.

Wait, I'm not done.

Now, take it one step further and imagine Buckwheat on a very humid bad hair day.

Yeah. It was THAT bad.

I honestly don't think the guy even knew what trimming was, let alone how to perform it.

If anyone needs any evidence to the fact that grooming a man's pubic hair can make him appear bigger....well....this guy would be clear-cut proof.

I'm guessing he could've added at least three or four inches...or rather SUBTRACTED that much.

This is a straight-up case of the pot calling the kettle black. It reminds me of when an employee complains about others being late, but consistently arrives tardy, giving themselves no credibility for asking everyone else to follow the rules.

I've heard the stories, and some are very funny and/or disturbing. I get images of someone trying to give this guy a blow-job, all the while trying to pick the hair out of their teeth.

I did mention they were disturbing, didn't I?

It all comes down to common sense, common decency, or maybe a combination of both. Not to mention plain old daily hygiene.

Bottom line...if this guy keeps looking for someone who takes the time and effort to keep things smooth as a baby's....you know....but he doesn't give a hundred percent of his part...things are going to get very hairy.

GLC
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GLC Presents: Real Women of "Genius" #18
Publié :17/1/2010 14h13
Dernière mise à jour :9/1/2013 6h40
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GLC Presents: Real Women of "Genius" #18

Today, I salute you, Ms. He Can't Get It Up

Ladies, I know how important it is for a man to be able to achieve, as well as maintain an erection. I know this....well...because I'm a man. I also understand how psychologically crippling it can be when things just don't function the way one expects them to.

Erectile dysfunction is a tricky, and often embarrassing subject for men to admit to, and even more difficult to discuss. However, when it becomes necessary for a man to talk about a potential problem, it is crucial that the person he is confiding in be understanding, supportive, and above all, non-judgmental.

So...imagine how it feels to a man when his partner...his bedmate, girlfriend, or in some cases, his wife...decides to ridicule him for something he's already mentally berating himself for. Adding insult to injury, when he needs someone in his corner, his partner is nowhere to be found.

Try this thought on for size.

It is estimated that today, 15 to 30 million men suffer from erectile dysfunction. Some statistics state that one in five men deal with some form of it.

If you didn't know THAT sobering thought, you certainly needed to.

Sometimes it can be a physiological issue, when an unchecked health problem arises, but most of the time it is a psychological problem. In other words, it's all in his mind. He's unable to perform, worries more about not being able to, making it much worse, and plunges deep into a depressed state. He withdraws from all forms of closeness which can potentially lead to intimacy, therefore avoiding the chance of drawing attention to his problem.

His partner, Ms. He's No Good In Bed, turns a molehill into a mountain by emotionally turning her back on him, leaving him to deal with the issue on his own. More often than not, his embarrassment and fear of trying to talk to his partner does not inspire him to speak to a professional who quite possible could be the only one that can help. Sadly enough, the relationship is doomed, unless he finds the courage to say "enough is enough", and stop worrying about being judged for asking for assistance.

It's interesting how the act of trying harder can actually have the opposite effect. Men put more pressure on themselves than a woman could ever dream of. Men want to succeed, and they want more than anything to be able to please their partner.

But, let me say this. Does an unsupportive partner deserve the pleasure he can give her? Does a woman who will tear him down for every minuscule fault he has merit to be the object of his desire?

I think everyone already knows the answer to that.

Now, picture THIS.

A man meets a woman after several attempts at a successful relationship. He is, in every sense of the word...TERRIFIED. He doesn't want to be hurt again, and he definitely doesn't want to be the catalyst for her broken heart. He worries so much that his fear begins to affect his body. You get the picture.

She could say, "Oh great. Another one that doesn't measure up."

Or, she could sincerely say, "Relax. Don't worry about it. It's okay."

Relax. That's the keyword. Why? Because the penis, when erect, is in its RELAXED state. A tense body means a tense penis, which means...NO ERECTION.

Imagine what a little support can do to a man's self-esteem. To give you an idea, think of Superman WITHOUT being near kryptonite. His strength returns. His confidence skyrockets, and once again, he can soar with the eagles.

The effect is exponential is either direction. The more he worries, the less he can perform. The less he worries, the more he's able to relax, and the better his performance becomes.

Yeah, yeah. It used to boggle my mind, too.

I'm sure the ladies understand when they feel like their bodies aren't up to par, and the one person they would expect to accept them for who they are makes them feel belittled about breast size, hip size, or any other measurement they can think of. That's when women often shy away from wearing revealing clothing, and the word "sexy" gets farther and farther away from daily conversation. The words "naked" and "intimacy" also go on an indefinite hiatus.

You will often see yourself as others see you. If your partner sees you as inadequate, and they are the closest one to you, then how can anyone expect you to look in the mirror and feel like you measure up to your lover's standards?

Also, how can anyone deserve the title "lover" when they demonstrate the exact opposite of loving?

Bottom line...if you want a partner, a friend, or even a lover....

BE ONE.

GLC
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GLC Presents: Real Men of
Publié :27/12/2009 10h56
Dernière mise à jour :27/12/2009 18h08
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GLC Presents: Real Men of "Genius" #56

Okay all. I took a short hiatus because I had something more important to do, but I'm getting complaints from the fans about me neglecting my duties as "genius" watcher. Since this weekend has found me with renewed Swagger, I figured it's time to get back to work.

Today, I salute you, Mr. Dump the Zero and Get With a Hero

I recently had the fortune of eavesdropping on an email that was sent to a wonderful woman whose profile states clearly in the headline that she's not looking anymore. She also makes it clear that she's found what she's looking for.

Well, of course, that doesn't stop today's "genius". He thinks, mistakenly, of course, that he's got it all goin' on.

First, let me point out that the body of his email says, "Let me know when you lose the zero to get with a hero."

Catchy line, I must say, but how can you call anyone a zero while knowing absolutely ZILCH about them?

There's a fine line between confidence and arrogance. I know I've been accused of crossing that line a time or two. But one thing that really gets under my skin is that the battle for her seems to be some kind of competition.

Well, pay attention for the next few seconds, pal, because here's the inside scoop:

The guy that she's with now didn't win her heart by playing some "I'm better than everyone else" game. He simply did what came natural by being himself and treating her like the lady she is...a lady with feelings that deserves respect.

That's a big word, I know, and one I mention quite frequently in my posts because I'm a strong believer in its power to unite common enemies and to resolve all misunderstandings.

So, let THIS not go misunderstood. Even if you know everything there is to know about the man she's with, that gives you, or no other person the right to demean or degrade them. In my opinion, you've spoken volumes about yourself already with just one little seemingly harmless email.

Seems like to me you might leave her feeling empty, even though you claim to be Mr. All That and a Bag of Chips. Let me give you the opinion directly from the source.

The man she's with now....and I'm paraphrasing here....is breakfast, lunch, dinner, and a midnight snack all rolled into one.

Translation: She's satisfied.

GLC
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GLC Presents: Real Men of "Genius" #55
Publié :29/11/2009 21h37
Dernière mise à jour :30/11/2009 12h52
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GLC Presents: Real Men of "Genius" #55

This "genius" not only surprised the hell out of me, but the research spurred by the tale of this guy led me to discover that guys like him are more common than I ever expected.

Today, I salute you, Mr. Three-Second Man

I'm sure you've heard the stories of "minute-men" and laughed, saying something like, "What a loser!", but what do the "minute-men" say when they hear stories of you?

I'm not going to call you a loser. Quite frankly, it's a demeaning term, and will defeat the purpose of these blogs, which is to educate while giving its recipient a good-natured ribbing.

I will say this. Three-second sex could occur within the time frame of a number of seemingly less-than-laborious tasks.

Take, for instance, putting on a pair of socks, opening a gallon of milk, starting your car, making a phone call, turning on the television, setting your alarm clock...all those things take LONGER than your sexual escapade.

Let me put this differently. One.........two.........THREE! Guess what? You just had sex! Oh, and if you smoke, the after-sex cigarette will stay hotter longer than you did.

Even if you use the one one-thousand, two one-thousand, three one-thousand counting method, or the one Mississippi, two Mississippi, three Mississippi counting method, it still ends up being enough time for you to have sex.

I'm sure that the "minute-men" are all laughing WITH you, and not AT you, but just in case, all is not lost. There are many ways to reduce sensitivity to prevent you from getting too excited. There are creams, sprays, or even thicker condoms available to help with this.

That is not all that should change. Your mindset should not be "Oh my God! I'm gonna have sex!" It shouldn't be surprise, because when you get too excited, well...things (no pun intended) get out of control.

From what I've heard, you're not alone. However, the young lady that probably had the "WTF" look on her face most likely thinks you should be. She undoubtedly was angry that it took longer to remove her clothes than it took for intercourse. She might be the understanding type, and will work with you to help you improve your stamina, and she might not.

Like I said, there are many ways to improve. Although I don't recommend the pharmaceutical products, they may come in handy for short-term improvement. Exercises and meditation can work wonders, and they don't cost a cent.

It's up to you whether or not you want to better your performance, but if you're satisfied with lasting less time than a professional bull-rider, then...good luck.

GLC
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GLC Presents: Real Men of "Genius" #54
Publié :7/11/2009 23h25
Dernière mise à jour :5/2/2013 6h57
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GLC Presents: Real Men of "Genius" #54

Today, I salute you, Mr. Three-Time No-Show

Ladies, I know you all have it rough. That's why I'm easily able to do more Real MEN of "Genius" posts than those of women.

That is why I must take this time to commend you on your patience, your diligence, and your uncanny ability to keep your sanity when dealing with a "genius" such as the one I'm about to describe.

It's funny how some men can be so driven to earn an opportunity to meet a lovely woman. They push the boundaries of the word pushy, and just before she gets angry and tells him to "have a nice day", she agrees to meet.

Fast forward to "date night". She's excited, perhaps in more ways than one. She's hoping that it will all be worth the time and effort to wear that special perfume and take out the dress that has been waiting ages for tonight.

She's ready in plenty of time, and waits for her knight in shining armor to arrive. Her heart begins to pound furiously as the agreed-upon hour approaches. She begins to ask herself a multitude of questions, such as, "What if we don't get along?" and one that sparks even more inquiries, "What if we DO?" Each minute seems as an eternity as the excitement turns to impatience, and then to worry, watching the clock tick past the time when Mr. Wonderful was supposed to appear.

The doorbell remains deafeningly silent, provoking a completely different set of questions.

"Did something happen?"

"Is he alright?"

"Is he ALIVE?!"

Long after she has already accepted that he's not coming, the phone rings. I'm sure you can imagine the conversation. He explains why he couldn't make it, and apologizes, asking for a rain check. His excuse falls on deaf ears. Even though she knows that...well...shit happens, she still struggles to believe him. Nevertheless, she agrees to give him another chance.

Round two begins. Again, she is anxious, but less than before. She has already been let down once, and is wary of the possibility of the same thing happening again.

Her fears are soon realized in the form of the story repeating itself. Again, her door remains closed, but this time, an entirely new set of questions leaves her perplexed.

"Is he not really interested?"

"Is he a player?"

"Is he married and cheating?"

Some time later, the phone rings again, and it's disturbingly obvious that he needed more time to come up with a better explanation for his absence. Still, he manages by some miracle, to convince her to give it one more try. Needless to say, she is not at all confident, and her expectations have already been set in stone.

Round three. This time, not so much effort is taken to prepare. A little less primping than before. A tiny bit less tweezing here. A little less shaving there. Even a lighter spritz of perfume is sacrificed this time around.

As the designated start time for the date comes and goes yet again, she sits there...once again, waiting, wondering, her frustration turns to anger. Instead of holding Mr. Not-So-Right responsible for his actions, she turns the blame on herself.

"What was I thinking?"

"Why didn't I just tell him 'no'?"

"Why do I keep believing guys who keep lying to me?"

"What am I doing wrong?"

The anger subsides, and turns into heart-wrenching depression. The dress, instead of being carefully placed back into the closet, ends up carelessly dropped into a wrinkled pile on the floor.

The hope that a hot shower will relax the tension of the hurtful disappointment becomes simply a plan to hide the tears from herself, letting them mix with the water swirling down the drain, along with the dreams of a never-ending fairy-tale romance.

As she steps out of the shower, she wipes the foggy mirror, and looks herself in the eyes. As she mentally berates herself for allowing yet another failure, the phone rings. The words of his apology, as well as his less-than-well-thought-out excuse are carried away by the raging river of broken trust. She simply thanks him for the call, and says goodbye. Having not the courage nor the desire to face the rest of the night alone, she resigns to the cold sheets, and a restless slumber.

Although this is a dramatization of a true story, I'm sure many of you ladies have experienced a similar event. It has happened to both men and women alike, and it can be just as hurtful in the case of either gender.

The kicker in the truth of this story is that it didn't end there. Later, the same man tried to convince her to go to a meet and greet only because he was going to be there...or so he claimed.

The good news is, she didn't fall for it. He had long betrayed the trust she had granted him, and she refused to meet him.

Atta girl!

Me, I probably would have told him, "Yeah. I'll be there. Wait for me." as I devilishly made plans NOT to be there.

Just kidding...or am I?

Bottom line, guys shouldn't put forth all the effort to earn a chance with a woman if all they are going to do is waste her time.

So...practice saying this, ladies. "My time is precious. Don't waste it."

Men, when you waste a woman's time, you're only wasting your own.

GLC
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GLC Presents: Real Women of "Genius" #17
Publié :2/11/2009 12h27
Dernière mise à jour :23/1/2013 8h11
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GLC Presents: Real Women of "Genius" #17

Today, I salute you, Ms. Provocative Screenname User

Ladies, if all you want on this site is no-strings-attached sex with a complete stranger who has no desire to treat you with any measurable amount of respect, and your Screenname AND profile clearly states it, then stop reading now. But if that's true, don't complain about every peeping Tom, horny Harry, and throbbing Dick that happens to form a semi-coherent email signifying his intentions to give you exactly what your profile states.

If you're looking to change that, maybe you should keep reading.

Picture, if you will, a horny man (is there any other kind?) browsing the profiles one day, and comes across your less-than-subtly-titled summary of you and what you want.

He may see "letsfucknow" or "hotpussyforyou" or even "nostringsonlysex", but the thing is, you could have a picture of a female gorilla on your profile, and the title will be enough for him to look right past it and assume that all you're looking for is sex.

Assume. It's that word that has the tendency to make an ASS out of U and ME.

Now, I'll gladly give him hell for writing the two-word (subject included) "Wanna fuck?" email, but I think it's only fair for the ladies to realize that your Screennames-not only your profiles-say a lot about who you are.

It also says volumes to the men who may or may not want to know more about you. It can attract the ones you are trying to avoid, and it can repel the needles in a haystack you are hoping to find.

A Screenname such as "bangmefrombehind" or "lickmeallnight" is probably not keeping the "geniuses" at bay. Like a moth to a flame, it is most definitely attracting the ones who are looking for a quick fix, and don't care who you are or what you are really all about.

Then, to try to make amends, the phrases, "stop sending me 'wanna fuck' emails", and "show some respect" are added to an already misleading profile. Sometimes it works. Most of the time, it doesn't perform its intended function. Profiles that seem like more of a complaint are more likely to be passed over by a guy who is looking for a drama-free experience...which is pretty much all of them.

This, by no means, gives the guys a free pass, nor does it exonerate you ladies. Both men and women should really take more than five minutes to construct a good profile, because when someone reads it, they are discovering something about you.

It's the same as a blind date. You listen to someone talk so you can find out if the interest is worth pursuing. Just like in a conversation, words are carefully chosen. Not to avoid making a mistake, really, but to be clear about what you want, and who you are.

So, ladies, take a moment and read your own profile as if it were someone else's. Read it, and picture in your mind the person that wrote it.

It should be you.

GLC
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GLC Presents: Real Men of "Genius" #53
Publié :25/10/2009 13h18
Dernière mise à jour :23/1/2013 8h12
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GLC Presents: Real Men of "Genius" #53

Here's a "genius" that will most likely defy the logic of a rational person's mind.

Today, I salute you, Mr. Looking for a Good Woman for a One Night Stand

You are obviously either new here, or so naive you make a three year-old seem like Nostradamus.

You say you're looking for a woman for a one-night stand. Most would think you might as well have said, "I wanna hit it and quit it" or "I wanna hump it and dump it".

Instead of leaving it at that, and taking your chances, you add "a good woman" to the "one-night stand" request.

First, I would say most women are good. In fact, I believe that ALL women are good. Some are just misunderstood or misguided. Either way, a disturbing majority of women are so jaded by guys who care little or nothing about who they are, that they almost automatically develop a knee-jerk reaction toward anyone of the male gender, and hold all men responsible for the way a bad apple in the bunch has treated them.

Second, am I to understand that you are looking for a one-night stand with a woman who likely is worth much more than that?

Third, what is it about YOU that makes you worthy of a good woman? Nothing that I've seen so far has given any merit to your views toward the opposite sex. You treat them like TV dinners that simply satisfy your hunger, but give you no desire to try the dessert, and we all know that the tray ends up in the trash before it's finished.

If you ask me, you should try treating them like creme brulee, where you break through the tough shell to get to the wonderful flavor underneath.

Furthermore, it doesn't matter if you're only looking for fun. What does matter is if you want a good woman, then you should try doing something to deserve one, such as treating them like a good man.

GLC
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GLC Presents: Real Men of "Genius" #52
Publié :17/10/2009 22h20
Dernière mise à jour :23/1/2013 8h16
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GLC Presents: Real Men of "Genius" #52

Today, I salute you, Mr. I'm Interested In You Now

I realize that the "Mr." title I placed on this post doesn't explain itself right away. That's because the real title would be, "Mr. I'm Interested In You Now, Because I Haven't Been Able To Get Laid, And Because You've Lost A Lot Of Weight, I Figured You Might Give Me Another Chance, Since No One Else Has Fallen For My Crap."

Yeah. Try to say THAT in one breath.

This post is about a wonderful lady in my network who has done an amazing job of losing weight. The last tally was at seventy-five pounds...and counting. The good news is, she's not doing it for anyone else but herself. Kudos to you, babe.

I only know a few details of this story, but it isn't the first one I've heard in my life. I've seen face-to-face the devastation of rejection based solely on the shape, size, or weight, of one's body. I'm going to give my opinion on this subject, and I will fill in the blanks where necessary. Any mention of weight is simply the means to an end, which is to make my point.

Now, generally speaking, imagine a woman who is a bit overweight. Sometimes, self-esteem in these cases isn't exactly topping the charts, and some men actually count on that. Well, she meets a man who catches her interest, but the feeling on his side isn't mutual. Yes, you guessed it. Her weight is the issue. Rejection, in a hurtful form, ensues. Use your imagination.

Wait. It gets better.

Fast forward to a time where her body has changed almost to the point that at first glance she seems to be a different person altogether. She feels better about who she is, and what the future holds. She is more confident, sassy, and anyone knows that sexy goes hand-in-hand with those two.

Enter the "genius" of the week. He's tried and failed so many times since he met her, and feels that now, because she's more physically attractive to him, he might give it another shot.

What he fails to realize is that she is still the same person inside. Changing her body did not change the woman, it merely strengthened her resolve.

The message comes, probably saying something like, "Hey! We haven't talked in a while. How about we get together soon?"

Okay, now is the time where you put on your Nostradamus hat, if you need it, to look into the future and tell me exactly what is about to happen.

Yep. Give yourself a pat on the back. You got it.

Didn't you?

She didn't fall for it. She knew that if SHE didn't deserve a chance with him then, HE didn't deserve a chance with her NOW. It didn't matter if his request was genuine or not. The trust had been shattered to smithereens long ago, and she was not the least bit interested in taking the chance that he was not still the same superficial person that she met before.

If he had changed by some miracle, let him prove it to someone else.

It wasn't fair for him to judge her solely on her weight. He didn't even try to get to know the person she is. He was only centered on her physical appearance.

What he didn't get to see is that she's a funny, witty, and exceptionally intelligent person who loves life and everything it has to offer. She works hard to earn everything she has, and doesn't back down when times get tough. That is more than I can say for Mr. Sorry, Not Interested In A Big Woman.

There's a reason why BBW stands for Big Beautiful Woman. Big doesn't describe the size of their bodies. If something is tipping the scales, it is the weight of the enormous hearts that somehow find room to fit. This makes them love themselves, knowing that if they are beautiful in their own eyes, then it is all that matters.

THAT is something that can NEVER be measured.

GLC
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GLC Presents: Real Men of "Genius" #51
Publié :10/10/2009 23h17
Dernière mise à jour :23/1/2013 8h18
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GLC Presents: Real Men of "Genius" #51

Today, I salute you, Mr. Do You Want Some Great Oral?

Hold on to your panties, ladies. This is not gonna be good for this week's "genius".

I've seen guys like him before. Hell, I've even written blog posts about guys like him before.

You may think I wonder what guys like him are thinking. Well, the truth is, I don't. He's thinking that if his request doesn't work on one woman, it will work on another.

He asks one woman, "Do you want some great oral?"

I'm sure you don't need three guesses what her response is. A resounding, "No."

Instead of moving on to the next unsuspecting victim of his annoying requests, he presses the issue with, "Why not?" Of course, that makes it worse.

She says, "Because I said 'no'." Translation: Because I don't want some random guy who probably hasn't even seen my picture, putting his tongue in the place where he obviously is willing to put it with any OTHER random woman he meets.

Did I word that correctly?

The fact that works against him is that women these days are a lot different than in ages past. No, they aren't smarter. They've always been intelligent. What makes them different nowadays is that they have reached the point where they have met so many guys like this, that they are tired of putting up with the nonsense they spew at the fairer sex the moment they lay eyes upon them.

Kudos to you, ladies. It pleases me to see that you don't need a man to step in and silence the idiots. Gone are the days of yesteryear, when a woman was expected to be seen and not heard, and was allowed to speak only when spoken to. Today, they will speak their mind, and put any overgrown male ego in its rightful place with a barrage of well-thought-out, yet painfully obvious truths that she would never let his tongue get within fifty feet of her, let alone any other part of him.

I'm sure that wasn't the type of oral he was expecting.

If that doesn't do the trick, then that wonderful little invention called the ignore button springs into action, sending all his typing efforts into chatroom hell.

There's nothing wrong with being direct. I'm a big fan of it. However, there is a big difference between treating a woman like a piece of meat to satisfy one's needs, and a person with a name with whom one can share a pleasurable experience.

Women want sex just as much as men, if not more. But when it becomes clear in the first thirty seconds that sex of any kind is all a man wants from a woman, then sex often becomes the last thing he'll ever get from her.

GLC
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GLC Presents: Real Women of "Genius"#16, Ms. Wants What She Can't Have
Publié :27/9/2009 21h53
Dernière mise à jour :18/10/2009 17h56
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GLC Presents: Real Women of "Genius"#16, Ms. Wants What She Can't Have

Today, I salute you, Ms. Wants What She Can't Have

This is a touchy subject for some. It deals with a woman that starts a relationship with a man, but is unable to accept him as he is, and subsequently tries to get him to change. She wants him when she doesn't have him, and doesn't want him when she DOES have him.

She is constantly saying how much fun it is to be with him, and how he makes her laugh like no one else can. The phone calls number at least three a day. Even then, she feels that they don't talk enough. Although they can spend an hour or more talking about anything and everything, she still wants more, and complains that she is the one that always calls, instead of him dialing her number.

I'm a strong believer in the fact that absence makes the heart grow fonder. A little time away from each other is beneficial...even necessary...for the relationship to thrive. Too much of anything, even the things you enjoy, can make you not want them anymore. Clingy and needy is one thing that can drive a relationship into the ground.

So, what happens? She breaks up with the guy because he becomes distant in an attempt to have some space. They both find the maturity level necessary to maintain a friendship afterward, but it soon becomes evident that she wants him back.

Fingers are pointed at first, but they find some way to resolve the prominent issues. Ultimately, the man ends up accepting that he is to blame for the failed relationship, and they end up getting back together.

All seems well for a time, but again the complaints arise. He's such a great guy, but she can always seem to find a reason to complain about him. The second break-up follows shortly.

A strong friendship is maintained, but inevitably the subject of the relationship comes into play once again. She cannot stand to hear him speak of another woman, even though he is perfectly within his right to date anyone he wants. He tries to speak selectively about his life, although it makes him feel like being watched over by a jealous lover. Any time he slips up and talks about another woman, the neediness returns.

A little more than a year goes by. The two spend time together, seemingly as friends. Occasionally, the topic of getting back together arises, but he adamantly refuses to give it a third try, believing that it will only lead to more heartache. He reminds her that she couldn't accept him as he is instead of pressuring him to be someone he is not.

The conversations over breakfast more often turn to the subject of getting back together, and when an ultimatum is given to him of "either we get back together, or the friendship is over", another discussion leads to her agreeing to let him be who he wants to be. She understands that everyone has to have their own time for themselves, and tries not to be as clingy and needy as before.

A good friend of mine put it in a very understandable way. An analogy of the spoiled milk that someone left in the fridge, and was unwilling to throw it away. After some time, they open the milk again, having forgotten that it was spoiled. Again, they replace it into the fridge. Finally, the third time, they make the same mistake, but this time the milk gets tossed out.

Sometimes the third time can be the charm. Unfortunately, this time, the third was the strike out. The two could not make the relationship cross the friend line again, and the man decided it was not worth it anymore. She decides that she cannot handle being "just friends" because of her feelings for him, and they part ways...perhaps forever.

I can understand how difficult it can be to maintain a friendship with someone when you want more. However, that does not justify playing the friend game simply for the chance that it will become more. It also isn't very mature to cut all ties with someone because they are unwilling to be more than your friend.

Which is worse? Wanting someone to be who they aren't in order to make you happy, or pretending to be someone you aren't in order to get what you want?

Don't worry. There is no correct answer.

Be who you are. If you feel pressured to change by someone, then I believe that they need to live their own lives, instead of trying to live yours for you.

GLC
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GLC Presents: Real Men of "Genius" #50, Mr. Guy Who Doesn't Learn From Being Banned
Publié :20/9/2009 13h18
Dernière mise à jour :21/9/2009 1h14
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GLC Presents: Real Men of "Genius" #50, Mr. Guy Who Doesn't Learn From Being Banned

I continue to believe that someday I'll run out of material for this blog. Today is NOT that day.

Today, I salute you, Mr. Guy Who Doesn't Learn From Being Banned

There's always some guy out there with a chip on his shoulder. One who thinks that taking his frustrations out on the innocents who cross his path will appease his demons.

He couldn't be further from the truth.

I, as well as most other chatters, go into a chat room to have fun, talk to friends, and crack some jokes. Some, unfortunately, think that walking into the place armed with a verbal baseball bat is going to earn him a home run.

Well, the chatters have a few advantages.

One: Home chatroom advantage

Two: A really big team

Three: An umpire (that would be ME) who won't hesitate to see to it that he's ejected from the game.

Well, anyone knows that if you don't bring your A game that you're going to lose. Hell, I don't think he brought a game worthy of an F.

It's the same old, same old every time. Insults, rudeness, and a bad attitude. Unfortunately for him, he still just a rookie. He is ejected from the game (banned), so he will have a day or so to get his act together.

I'll give you three guesses what happened.

He didn't learn.

After being banned, he comes back, and after a few minutes of semi-respectable behavior, he reverts back to the guy no one likes. Insuts, rudeness, and yep, you guessed it...bad attitude.

I gave him two choices. Clean up his act, or be banned AGAIN.

I guess it was too much to ask of him. He left.

A good friend of mine said it best.

Good riddance to bad rubbish.

GLC
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GLC Presents: Real Men of "Genius" #49, Mr. Photo Stealer
Publié :30/8/2009 22h01
Dernière mise à jour :20/12/2009 17h38
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GLC Presents: Real Men of "Genius" #49, Mr. Photo Stealer

Here's one that baffles the mind of many of the REAL geniuses.

Today, I salute you, Mr. Photo Stealer

I'd like to know what goes through the mind of a man who takes the photos of someone else, and posts them on his profile as if they were him.

What's the strategy? You hope that no one will ever see your real face?

How's THAT plan working out for you? Not well, I'm thinking.

Here's the "add insult to injury" part.

There are some who take photos from women's profiles, and post them claiming they are "conquests".

I'm also thinking that THAT strategy is bound to backfire when the true owner of the photo comes calling.

I'm sure that looks are a big part of your self-esteem, and if you don't have one, then you obviously have none of the other. However, let me tell you a secret.

Deceiving others into thinking you are someone you aren't is LYING. Using photos that do not belong to you is akin to wearing a mask to hide the real you.

The thing is, sooner or later people begin to see through the lies, and when you finally decide to show your face, they will tell you to cover it back up.

GLC
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